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GRRRRRR to people dying, getting sick, and breaking up. September and October have been hard for so many people. Also, GRRRRRR to feeling stuck in life and alone. I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing with myself.
^ IKR? Somebody's been on a smiting spree w/me lately, too. What's up w/that? I give karma every single time I log in, just because. Hmmph. Oh well. C'est la vie & all that jazz...
I wish the people that work for me would realize that being punitive to an employee that is struggling isnt going to help the situation. You dont help someone get back on their feet and working successfully by giving them written warnings and threatening their position. It just doesnt work that way...and yet when I ask them to trust me and to understand that it's going to take some time for their employee to be up and running and successful they just cant grasp it.
I guess by this hour, this is more of a worn out ugh, than a grrrrrrr.
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
It's not permanent. He told me last night that he needs to take a break from online stuff for awhile. I think most of us have had the "too many distractions" feeling. This is his way of dealing with that.
Either that, or y'all are just a bunch of ruthless meanies in Mafia!
Welcome back Bonz, but I do not find it strange that your presence being requested in the Orgy thread and then you showing up, like it was the quacking Bonzai Bat Signal.
I wish the people that work for me would realize that being punitive to an employee that is struggling isnt going to help the situation. You dont help someone get back on their feet and working successfully by giving them written warnings and threatening their position. It just doesnt work that way...and yet when I ask them to trust me and to understand that it's going to take some time for their employee to be up and running and successful they just cant grasp it.
I guess by this hour, this is more of a worn out ugh, than a grrrrrrr.
Quick update, I guess HR told her to do the written warning. She understood my point when we talked about it.
My car loan is $405 a month. I paid $205 in late September, and was going to put another $200 in after my last paycheck (Friday the 5th) to cover the month's balance. The account is automatically charged on the 7th of the month.
It took out the full $405 payment, and not the $200 + interest. My bank account didn't have enough to cover the 405, so I got slapped with a $25 fee on top.
I'm broke. This sucks. I'm probably gonna have to sell tickets to shows, CDs, DVDs, things I can make expendable. This car is killing me, I might not be able to go to Roo ... or any festival before Moog 2013. Between the loan payment, insurance, taxes, and gas - it's eating on average 35-40% of my take home pay. Going to all these shows and fests the last two years certainly didn't help my case either.
If you want to see Ben Sollee or the Gaslight Anthem in Boston, STS9 in New York ... come PM me.
GRRR to having a fucked up back & being laid up in bed all day. Missed work, my son's baseball game, & book fair night. Doctor can't see me until tomorrow morning, but I guess that is better than in 2 weeks like they originally told me this morning.
Never tell a lady how you really feel if you have your heart on your sleeve. Because it’s already bleeding out on the floor, that shizs just messy. No one wants that.
^appreciate the rant. From experience, it's been years (and maybe it's because of who I am that I'm just not date-able) - the redefining of self after being broken up with can be beyond crippling.
Still feel crazy and it's been 3 years man. If it weren't for inforoo, the need to move out, work and such hadn't distract me.. I really don't know what I would have done those first 3 months. (certainly somethings I'm not terribly proud of) I still don't know what I'm doing today
Jimmyroo & Bandeto: hugs to you both, my friends. You guys have been put through the ringer emotionally, but you're gonna get through this. Lean on your friends for comfort. Let them nurse your heart while it's recovering. That's what I experienced with this amazing Inforoo family when I was in your situation a few years ago. It's not easy, but IT DOES GET BETTER! Focus on that. And remember: you have lots of people here who love & care about you.
The loss of someone that you have been with a long time does make you give pause and reflect on who you are and who you want to be. Whether the relationship was good or contentious, and no matter how it ends, there is an emptiness when that individual that defined much of your life is gone.
I live in Atlanta, which as most of you know was burned to the ground during the Civil War by Sherman in his March to the Sea. The phoenix bird has become a common theme around town for business and government - the mythological bird that rose from the ashes. Today I was riding through town and it struck me suddenly that such a cataclysmic event like a breakup or death of a partner is something akin to a devastating fire, and from the ashes a beautiful bird will arise and fly free. I share this symbolism with all of my Inforoo family who are experiencing ending relationships in the hope that it will inspire you like it did me.
It will get better, guys. We're all here for each other as we find our way.
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Never tell a lady how you really feel if you have your heart on your sleeve. Because it’s already bleeding out on the floor, that shizs just messy. No one wants that.
Never tell a lady how you really feel. Let her figure it out herself from how you act.
Never tell a lady how you really feel if you have your heart on your sleeve. Because it’s already bleeding out on the floor, that shizs just messy. No one wants that.
Never tell a lady how you really feel. Let her figure it out herself from how you act.