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I just realized recently that Halloween night is a dad night for the kiddos. I'm trying to not get down about it but it's a favorite holiday for the boys and me. We spend a lot of time decorating and coming up with costume ideas and now for the first time I won't get to see those little costumed bodies go trick or treating and see the excitement in their eyes. Ugh and Grrr.
sorry, that is a bummer. it can be uber challenging at times to have sole custody of my kids (meaning, literally 24/7/365) but I am grateful to not have to share them for things like that. I'm guessing your ex wouldn't be willing to switch or let you see them for at least part of the night? I have friends who celebrate holidays on different days when they don't get their kids, like having Christmas a couple of days early or whatnot. I know it's not the same but maybe you guys could at least dress up in costumes, have a Halloween movie marathon and pig out on candy one night!
Post by monkybunney on Oct 3, 2013 23:34:53 GMT -5
Heavy. I'm viewed as a neutral figure in an argument between two friends whom I deeply love. So I'm getting it from both sides, each one asking me to validate their point of view. "Am I right?" "I'm right aren't I?" NO you're both fucking wrong. They can't empathize with each other's perspective because they're to invested in their own selfishness to see a common ground.
So I'm the only sane one left?
Also all my love to custeph. Stay positive. Shit happens but I'm convinced it happens for good reasons even when they aren't apparent.
I'm trying to make an appointment to see about getting a mortgage but it is like pulling teeth. I went to the bank's website and filled out a pre-approval application and stated on there that I prefer to communicate by email (I have foot-in-mouth syndrome when talking on the phone). The next day, the mortgage broker called and left a voicemail saying she needed a bunch of information before I could get pre-approved and she wanted me to call her back. Apparently she didn't read that I preferred to be contacted by email. I am self-employed and my parents are going to co-sign so we both have a ton of questions for the broker and I would rather not deal with this over the phone. I sent an email stating that I'm self-employed and have some questions I'd like to ask her in person and if she is going to be available on Monday afternoon. I get an email back at 2 AM this morning saying "How long have you been self-employed?". First, that doesn't answer my question at all (Is she available on Monday afternoon or not?) and, second, the lady can just look at the pre-approval application that I filled out about my employment history. Does this woman even know how to read? I would just say screw it and go with another bank but my parents highly recommended this woman and would be disappointed if I didn't use her try to get a mortgage. Grrrrrrr....
I'm trying to make an appointment to see about getting a mortgage but it is like pulling teeth. I went to the bank's website and filled out a pre-approval application and stated on there that I prefer to communicate by email (I have foot-in-mouth syndrome when talking on the phone). The next day, the mortgage broker called and left a voicemail saying she needed a bunch of information before I could get pre-approved and she wanted me to call her back. Apparently she didn't read that I preferred to be contacted by email. I am self-employed and my parents are going to co-sign so we both have a ton of questions for the broker and I would rather not deal with this over the phone. I sent an email stating that I'm self-employed and have some questions I'd like to ask her in person and if she is going to be available on Monday afternoon. I get an email back at 2 AM this morning saying "How long have you been self-employed?". First, that doesn't answer my question at all (Is she available on Monday afternoon or not?) and, second, the lady can just look at the pre-approval application that I filled out about my employment history. Does this woman even know how to read? I would just say screw it and go with another bank but my parents highly recommended this woman and would be disappointed if I didn't use her try to get a mortgage. Grrrrrrr....
my Internet is out... with a huge project to finish, an online quiz to take, and a genetics midterm on Tues to study for... after 45 min on the phone w/tech support and a hard reset of the modem, no dice. apparently my Internet provider is dealing with outages across SC and they have no idea when it will be working again. but, they put in a repair ticket for me for Tues afternoon in case it's still out then. um, thanks?
also, my toddler is having a very fussy day, which doesn't help. I know it's not even close to the worst thing, just feeling annoyed at the moment :/
I'm trying to make an appointment to see about getting a mortgage but it is like pulling teeth. I went to the bank's website and filled out a pre-approval application and stated on there that I prefer to communicate by email (I have foot-in-mouth syndrome when talking on the phone). The next day, the mortgage broker called and left a voicemail saying she needed a bunch of information before I could get pre-approved and she wanted me to call her back. Apparently she didn't read that I preferred to be contacted by email. I am self-employed and my parents are going to co-sign so we both have a ton of questions for the broker and I would rather not deal with this over the phone. I sent an email stating that I'm self-employed and have some questions I'd like to ask her in person and if she is going to be available on Monday afternoon. I get an email back at 2 AM this morning saying "How long have you been self-employed?". First, that doesn't answer my question at all (Is she available on Monday afternoon or not?) and, second, the lady can just look at the pre-approval application that I filled out about my employment history. Does this woman even know how to read? I would just say screw it and go with another bank but my parents highly recommended this woman and would be disappointed if I didn't use her try to get a mortgage. Grrrrrrr....
Just a warning, if they don't fix the shutdown in DC you're going to get crazy frustrated since they use IRS transcripts. Just a heads up and sorry.
my Internet is out... with a huge project to finish, an online quiz to take, and a genetics midterm on Tues to study for... after 45 min on the phone w/tech support and a hard reset of the modem, no dice. apparently my Internet provider is dealing with outages across SC and they have no idea when it will be working again. but, they put in a repair ticket for me for Tues afternoon in case it's still out then. um, thanks?
also, my toddler is having a very fussy day, which doesn't help. I know it's not even close to the worst thing, just feeling annoyed at the moment :/
Fussy days are tough to deal with. Not so tough if you have nothing else to do but tend to the fussiness but when you have real sh!t to do, it's a big roadblock to productivity.
I'm posting this here but no where else. I don't know how to do this anymore.
I'm just now seeing this. I really need to stop slacking on here. I'm so sorry to hear about this! I wish I could be of more help to you and your family, but my ears are always open.
I'm posting this here but no where else. I don't know how to do this anymore.
I'm just now seeing this. I really need to stop slacking on here. I'm so sorry to hear about this! I wish I could be of more help to you and your family, but my ears are always open.
I'm just now seeing this. I really need to stop slacking on here. I'm so sorry to hear about this! I wish I could be of more help to you and your family, but my ears are always open.
Hope the scan goes well and you have some relief soon.
Well, doctor called with the results. He didn't see anything that would trap a nerve to cause numbness, but did see a "prominence" on my left vocal cord. So he referred me to an ENT for a laryngoscopy. Now, I AM worried about cancer. How in the world am I going to enjoy my beach vacation next week with this hanging over me......Dear God.....
An update on my grrrrr.......I apologize for being such a drama queen. After hearing the news of the scan I went into automatic freak out pessimist mode. I did enjoy my vacation and tried not to think about what "it" might be. I have an appt on Wed am with an ENT at their voice/swallowing clinic.
2013~Bonnaroo, Gentlemen of the Road-Troy 2014~McDowell Mountain, Beale Street, Bonnaroo, Riot Fest 2015~Coachella 1, Bonnaroo 2016~Summer Camp, Bonnaroo, Live on the Green, Pilgrimage 2017~Bonnaroo, Live on the Green, Pilgrimage 2018~Bonnaroo
"During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act" 2019~BROKE 2020~M'fking COVID 2021~ditto 2022~tbd
Well, doctor called with the results. He didn't see anything that would trap a nerve to cause numbness, but did see a "prominence" on my left vocal cord. So he referred me to an ENT for a laryngoscopy. Now, I AM worried about cancer. How in the world am I going to enjoy my beach vacation next week with this hanging over me......Dear God.....
An update on my grrrrr.......I apologize for being such a drama queen. After hearing the news of the scan I went into automatic freak out pessimist mode. I did enjoy my vacation and tried not to think about what "it" might be. I have an appt on Wed am with an ENT at their voice/swallowing clinic.
I think worrying is completely normal, you're not a drama queen
Post by SilentEyedStorm on Oct 9, 2013 17:48:27 GMT -5
UPDATE.......My laryngoscopy went well. No abnormalities seen. Just "global inflammation" which might be causing the tight pain in my neck. Back to him in 3 mos to see how things are going. I'll take it!
2013~Bonnaroo, Gentlemen of the Road-Troy 2014~McDowell Mountain, Beale Street, Bonnaroo, Riot Fest 2015~Coachella 1, Bonnaroo 2016~Summer Camp, Bonnaroo, Live on the Green, Pilgrimage 2017~Bonnaroo, Live on the Green, Pilgrimage 2018~Bonnaroo
"During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act" 2019~BROKE 2020~M'fking COVID 2021~ditto 2022~tbd
I had to bail on the Baths show tonight way earlier than I wanted after getting a text from Brad that I had a kid throwing up at home. GRRRRRRRRR. I hated leaving you, G, but I did enjoy the time spent at the Botanical Gardens tonight. Now I'm off to Lysol the house one more time.
I had to bail on the Baths show tonight way earlier than I wanted after getting a text from Brad that I had a kid throwing up at home. GRRRRRRRRR. I hated leaving you, G, but I did enjoy the time spent at the Botanical Gardens tonight. Now I'm off to Lysol the house one more time.
Sorry to hear that. Stomach bugs are the worst. Hopefully, it just stays with the one kid.
Edit: It's been confirmed that Zach was not on the phone when he wrecked. They are still uncertain why he ran off the road.
My good friend from high school/early college was killed in a car accident early Saturday morning.
Zach just turned 27, was a talented musician, a kick-ass band director, a loyal friend, and a joy to be around. I deeply regret letting the last few years go by without contact.
Keep in touch. Tell your family and friends that you love them. Let them know their existence is important to you.
Please be careful while driving. It only takes a small distraction to cause a wreck.
I'm so sorry, sugar. Why do people think that they are bulletproof and immortal? And why do we think that those we love are bulletproof and immortal?
Spent the day yesterday with my 79 year old father who has been battling cancer like a warrior for over 6 years now. After 4 surgeries and 3 recurrences he has hung in there. This weekend, though, I realized that his battle is nearing an end. Although his mind is still sharp, his body is in rapid decline. I shouldn't let it get me down as he has had a full and productive life and has impacted many other people. He is a wonderfully creative person who has acted in 60+plays and directed several plays in community theatre, has a sharp wit and has been married to the love of his life for 28 years. Rather than think about how much time he has left, I'm now thinking in terms of how many more times will I get to see him?
Yes, tell those who you love that you love them. Try to stay in touch. But don't look back with regret, just look forward with love.
At least I know this is coming and have only myself to blame if I don't see him enough. I guess I was not so much complaining about my situation as backing up what you were saying...reminding people that life is indeed so fragile.