So I knew this kind of situation was going to present itself at one point or another. I'm starting to catch a few feelings for an amazingly sweet girl. Problem: my buddy seems to have been doing the same for months now. Nothing has materialized between the two of them, and they seem to bicker more than actually talk. Part of me wants to not even get involved with it, and just let them be. The other part says that I may as well try my luck if it's taken them both this long. Basically what I'm getting at, is that an a**hole move or am I in the clear? Needed an outside opinion. Also, sorry to derail the underwear/sheet washing/hygiene direction this thread was going in. You may discard this post if it has.
Little add-on: She's still got more school to do, and I'll be long gone after this semester.
Alls fair in love and war. If this friend is worth having, and there turns out to be a big connection between you and her, he should understand. It's his responsibility to make a move, and if he doesn't or nothing materializes from it, then he'll just have to accept it.