actually it is. we are arguing over the fact that they believe they know what a good parent is and what a good parent isn't.
Please give it a rest EAP because that's not what is being argued at all. You're blowing things way out of proportion. No need for hyperbole...just talk like a normal person. Juggs and noD said nothing like that and both have repeatedly pointed out they weren't even talking about parenting. So stop pelase.